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This is not a story of a date that didn\’t work out (or did). It\’s not about the last crush where everything started out great but got nowhere. It\’s not just about learning to live and discovering myself through my personal relationships (but it is). This is not a romantic love story between two individuals. This is a love […]

This is not the original text I wrote to be the first on the new site and the first of 2021. The text I had written tells the story of my last relationship. It\’s called \”The last blow of the male who pretended to be a prince\”. Just by the title you can imagine how good

I was 26 when I discovered my first gray hair. Well, who really found out was my ex-husband, on the first day of our Honeymoon. We were sitting in the shade, by the pool, when he looked at me in astonishment and with the immature sensitivity of a young man said: “Nooossaaaa, look at the size of

Two weeks ago you said goodbye to me at the airport, leaving an immense void in my heart. It made me want to catch the first flight back to Brazil. But sitting there on a bench, waiting for my crying to calm down so I could take the Airtrain back to Jamaica Plain, I remembered you telling

Last weekend I stopped. I stopped at once. I spent the whole weekend in bed, tossing and turning, bored. Trying to find in a book, a movie and even in the landscape the way out of my physical isolation and my mind swamped with thoughts. The Friday leading up to that weekend, I went to bed late again after

Telling the same tale, again…Cinderella meets a Prince, super interested in her, affectionate and apparently not afraid to show feelings. Cinderella, fearless and self-assured, expresses herself, but remains herself and goes on with her normal life. She goes out with friends, goes out alone, does what she feels like, but respecting herself and the Prince. In less than

We know, deep down we know, when something is not for us. We meet someone and in a short time, if not in the first few minutes, we know that that guy or that relationship is not for us. We get a job and in a few days we already know that place is not for us. We

Even though I was starting to strongly believe in astral hell and I didn\’t have my thoughts in place since Christmas, I couldn\’t help but think about my New Year\’s wishes when the 31st of December knocked on my door.The only problem is that, like last year, I didn\’t quite know what to order. A Green

Learning to own my desires and my nose was not an easy task for me. Never was. Before Prince Charming, I hid behind my insane rationality in order not to perceive my most intimate desires. Feeling wasn\’t me. Feeling hurts. So I was never the type to have sex with the guy on the first night. “What if he doesn\’t want

At 3 am that night I finished decorating and tidying up my room. I moved apartments two weeks ago and was emotionally drained trying to organize myself and at the same time find the best way to make my room my home sweet home. My little corner to write, read, watch movies and be with myself (which